The Day My Dog Sh*t on Park Avenue and I Didn’t Have a Bag

The following is a true story. For realsy.

It was August of 2008 in New York City and unbearably hot. And that’s coming from a Southerner. They were calling it the heat wave of the century. At least I was calling it that. People were basically stripped down to nothing and when you breathed you felt the heat expand in your lungs. The cement made the already hot air electric. It would burn you at times, only letting up for about an hour between 2 and 3 am. Walking outside was what I imagine the last two weeks of pregnancy must be like; simply uncomfortable. That being said, I was REALLY hungover.

There’s something about being hungover that makes heat…hotter. I basically just want air to be blowing at me when I’m under the weather that way. I used to stand in front of the freezer with the door wide open for far too long and just let the cold air rush past my face in some weird attempt at relief and to try and make the hangover go faster. Like it’s some guest I can get scoot out the door. But everybody knows…you just have to sweat it out. I still can’t believe we’re capable of growing seedless watermelons but we can’t figure out the cure for a hangover. That being said, Monty really had to pee.

Every dog owner knows that on the day after partying, the dog totally gets shafted. “Sorry buddy. Mommy blacked out last night and now my everything hurts and so we’re probably not going to play fetch or do anything remotely fun today.” I feel awful when it happens. I hardly drink anymore because, well, I feel dead all the time on my own. But there were those days. There WERE those days–When moving was all-too-painful and your pores smelled like candy and vodka and your hair was inexplicably sticky? It was one of those days. Monty needed to do his business. New York was exploding with heat. And I was deathly hungover.

I was staying at my brothers apartment. It was on the third floor, so I mentally prepared myself for the walk down the stairs I was about to take. I walked cautiously and told Monty “Go slow buddy. I could DIE at any second.” He seemed to notice I was out of sorts and behaved a little better on his leash. I pushed open the ridiculously heavy door at the end of the stairs and the sun and the heat and the smell of New York pour in and engulf me and I kindof throwup in my mouth. I swallow hard,  blink my eyes forcefully a few times, and hold my head still while my eyes catch up with reality. I turn right, begin the walk down the sidewalk and Monty wastes no time. He spots the first tree, lifts his leg, and I contemplate letting the semi driving down the street run me over. He passes. And business number one is done. Great, keep going. There’s a spot that he loves to poop a few blocks down, but I’m wondering if I can make it that far. My life is in Monty’s hands. Or butt. I have to get this over with. “Just go anywhere buddy. Really, it’s fine to go on the cement.” But Monty is a Southern dog and is still getting used to shitting on cement. I can tell by the look in his eyes when he does it, it just doesn’t feel right. Maybe it’s the human equivalent to driving on the left side of the road in England. Or putting ketchup on a filet. Something like that.

As we walk on, my stomach starts to turn. Ah, the viscous waves of nausea that accompany the hangover. Will I puke? Or will it pass? The mystery of it all is fantastic. I look away from the sun and think of lemons. I always think of lemons when I am nauseous. I’ve done this since I was little and it’s the only thing that helps if I concentrate on it. Lemons lemons lemons lemons lemons lem…aaaaaand now my mouth is watering. The turning gets faster, the saliva is circulating in my mouth and I know it’s go time. We stop at a tree, I get on my knees, and share my insides with the streets of New York. Awesomely, my throw up tastes like gatorade. I find that Gatorade is the best thing to vomit. It tastes the same coming out as it did going in! I like the red flavor but really any of them will do. As I’m crouched over, puking, Monty tries to start licking it. “NO!” I yell with as much energy as I can get behind that word. Then I ralph again. I hear high heels walking towards me. I know she’s classy. I can feel how pretty and put together she is. She smells good too. “Hey, are you OK?” she asks as she hands me a kleenex. Is this rock bottom? I think so, but I can’t be sure. “Yeah, I’m fine. Thank you.” I don’t make eye contact. I feel so ashamed. I wish I were wearing high heels and expensive perfume and walking somewhere important. Instead I am upchucking on a sidewalk and my dog is trying to eat it. WHEN WILL I GET IT TOGETHER. OK, so the best part about puking is how good you feel after you puke. I take a deep breath, continue our walk, and bear the heat a little more easily. On to number 2.

We’re approaching Monty’s favorite spot, and we’re both getting excited. I can tell, he’s been waiting for this for a while. My relief after vomiting is short lived and by the time I get to his special spot, all my symptoms are back. Awesome. Monty does his business and I pick it up with a torn grocery bag, and it strikes me that picking up dog shit off the sidewalk with a damaged bag is NOT the grossest thing I’ve done today, and that is concerning.

We turn and begin the treck home. I am going to make it. Monty and I are both going to live and I smile at the idea of getting back to the apartment and not moving again until tomorrow. But suddenly, something is happening. I can feel it. I sense something with Monty. Why is he wearing that excited look he gets when he’s about to poop? He already did that. He’s sniffing at another tree and won’t come when I pull the leash. It can’t be. No. No no no. Not a DOUBLE POOP DAY. SHIT. DOUBLE SHIT. It’s a strange phenomena that happens once in a blue moon. The double poop. You never know when it will happen. But almost always when it does, you’re not carrying the bag with the extra in-case-of-emergency poop bag. SHIT. I am on Park Avenue. I am the human version of a car accident, and my dog is pooping and I don’t have a bag. Thanks Monty, thanks a lot. He wags his tail. My stomach turns and the road dizzies.

I have no explanation for what happened next, but it really did happen. There is a sudden breeze, and I close my eyes and just let the somewhat refreshing movement of air run over my face. It had been static air in New York for so long it felt like. Suddenly, a breeze. I feel calm. I try to think if this is a poop and run moment or what my plan of action is. Just as I contemplate options,  I feel something grace my ankle. I look down and see that a Duane Reede bag was blown right onto my foot. The wind carried it from who knows where, and basically delivered it to me and this train wreck of a situation. I can’t believe it. I look around and make sure I don’t see a dude in a glowing white suit say “You’re Welcome. By the way, I’m God.” I don’t harp on it too long because that breeze is dying down and of course, my stomach is turning. I disgard Monty’s second helping. We complete our walk and make it to the apartment, up the stairs, and onto the couch. I don’t move for the next 12 hours. I play that moment of the bag hitting my ankle over and over. And that was the day my dog shit on Park Avenue and I didn’t have a bag.

And then, suddenly, I did.

Health, Happiness, and Always Take a Second Bag.

Sorry I pulled the double deuce on you!

23 thoughts on “The Day My Dog Sh*t on Park Avenue and I Didn’t Have a Bag

  1. Aw, this was an extremely good post. Finding the time and actual effort to make a top notch article… but what can I say… I procrastinate a whole lot and never seem to get anything done.


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  4. Been there! Hangover and all. Just the shit situation happened in my neighborhood. My old dog was about 20 lbs of old lady, but she had unerring taste. She simply Had to poop on the nicest lawn available. Preferably when those neighbors are outside. I always carried two bags, except for one afternoon when I was severely hungover and wanted to shower and fall over. She led me around, chose one lawn and I bagged it up. Then she stopped again three houses down and I had to use the same bag. I don’t know how I did it. Point being,we do gross stuff for the dogs we love ;)


  5. Oh Lord, I love it when I am home alone and laughing my guts out (like now) and my cat looks at me like I’ve lost it. I had two large dogs as of last year (but they both died) and taking two at a time around the hood was a real adventure, for all of us! My lab would pee and poop every chance she got, and my golden would turn up her nose at it all, as she WOULD NOT pee or poop anywhere but her own backyard. Even if she was gone overnight! So thanks for the belly laugh, that one was a classic!


  6. I really needed a funny dog story right now. Last night my11 yr old pittbull\boxer Belladonna lost her fight with cancer. I’m stuck on a movie set…I know poor me. But you try holding back hysterics so you don’t cry on an actor or finding a good spot on location to lose it. I feel a million miles from home. Somehow the glamour loses it shine. I was looking for comfort via internet and read your blog reguarly since the whole facebook thing. I also have fibromyalgia and fell in love with your writing for so many reasons. Your very talented. Just wanted to let you know your work is appreciated and making a difference. Couldn’t help but smile at your adventure and how life handed you a freebie :)


    1. I’m so sorry to hear that. Sometimes I think that dogs have shorter lives than we do so that we can love so many more of them. I know that’s small comfort right now, but I have been through that, and know how difficult it is. My thoughts are with you.


    2. I’m really sorry to hear that. Keep your head up. I lost a year old black lab a few years back and I remember the pain distinctly. I’d still do it again, (and I did, I bought Monty a year later) but it was very hard. Just like losing a family member. Just know you’re not alone with the pain and that it won’t last forever. Hang in there.


  7. Hilarious. I have a gorgeous black lab who does the same thing. I got caught the other day with NO bag as he pooped in a huge park in front of a high-rise office building covered in windows. All I had was a Kleenex which won’t come even close to doing the job. I even ran back to my truck in hopes of a spare bag but nothing. I considered glancing in the trash can to see if I could find a bag, but then hell… was all too gross. Porter and I slunk off in shame.
    But I’d suffer that a million times rather than have no dog!


  8. Try going without a bag when you have a St. Bernard! There’s no amount of nearby leaves or dirt to just sort of “cover it up”. I carry multiple bags at all times…it’s just safer that way.
    The story is wonderful, though. I can remember the old hangover days, before Fibromyalgia, and before I reached my 60s. I still like to go out for a drink or two, but that’s my limit now!!


  9. That was a great story, Mary. I used to have those hangovers, and all the “fun” that goes with it, but don’t anymore, thank God. I’ve never heard a double poop story told.
    Great writing, as always!


  10. Amazing. Simply amazing. I have two doggies and they love there morning trips outside. In my backyard, both of them have certain spots where they do there number 2. My dog Dingo, he’s a poop walker. He starts to poo and as he’s pooing he will walk its so funny.

    Dogs truely are mans bestfriend. Lol


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