10 Things to Avoid…
9. Ok 8 things.
10. Oh yeah, and Wal-Mart.
Here is the truth; you’re not missing out on anything if you don’t get on Facebook today. I’ll fill you in: Someone got engaged. Someone had a baby. Someone is angry at Obama. Someone cooked spaghetti. And someone is hung-over after going out big last night. But if you spend the day on Facebook, you’re missing out on all the rest. You know, like on life. So now here’s 10 things you can do instead of get on Facebook, that might actually make you feel better.
1. Forgive somebody. There is probably someone or something from your past that needs to be let go of, moved on from, and it might even be you. Letting go of things in the past opens up room for good stuff in the future. Go!
2. Appreciate who and what ya got. Having a gratitude journal sounds super cheesy I know, but once you start writing down everything you’re thankful for everyday, you’ll see very subtly your whole perception change for the better.
3. Create. Make art! Or a sweater! Or music.Or dinner! You’ll be surprised at what you end up making. And have someone in mind when you create. The best gifts are home-made.
4.Exercise. Even if it’s just a walk outside or 15 minutes of yoga… exercise releases serotonin and adds years to your life. Imagine if you did 10 sit-ups/push-ups for every 10 minutes you spent on Facebook. Everyone would be all muscley and stuff.
5. Bake a cake for someone. Anyone. Just because you love em. It’ll make their day! Let us eat cake.
6.Organize your closet, dresser, room, or junk drawer. Cleaning things out just feels good, it’s free, and the end result will make you breathe easier.
7. Occupy Wal-Street. Just kidding. Couldn’t think of a good O verb. Uh, organize your second closet!
8. Kidnap someone and bring them on an awesome adventure. Dont actually blindfold them and throw them in the backseat of your car or anything..just bring them to lunch or something. And then maybe antiquing.
9. Read a book. Remember books? Instead of getting lost in an anonymous persons wedding album on Facebook, (ahem, yeah that’s me) get lost in a book. It’s such an awesome feeling. And you don’t feel like a creeper by the end.
10. Write and send a letter. Not an email, not a text. A real letter, written in your own special handwriting. Old school mail dude, it’s the best! (May take 2 weeks to arrive though. The post office has had a rough year.)
Health, Happiness, Lifebook. (See what I did there?)
10 thoughts on “10 Things to Avoid (and Embrace) When You’re Depressed.”
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Thanks! This is a great and inspiring post… You have so much wisdom and I love your blog. Keep it up! :D
I have been taking a break from facebook and a lot of people have been noticing an improvement in my mood and I’ve been noticing I have way more time to do things I want, I’m reading more books and I just FEEL better – this is a great post :)
Thanks for the good advice. I am currently taking a break from facebook because it was getting to make me anxious and getting to be almost an addiction for me. I really like the alternatives, except maybe for the second O you could say “Occupy a good Italian restarant” Ok, maybe not.
just discovered your blog…and LOVE it. I will now stalk you instead of checking FB, which isn’t quite as good as knitting for a dog, but darn close.
8) reminds me of this…
While I can’t do most of the things on you list, I agree FB is a depression trap. I succumb though. I can’t help but smile when there are cute/disastrous stories of my friends trying to raise their first babies, and the adorable pictures they post. For once, my life is better! haha
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True story. Facebook can have the most unsettling and depressing reactions in me. It is horrible hole for those who have the tendency to compare themselves (or life) to others. It becomes a vicious cycle.
Those are all really great suggestions and reasons Mary!